The Judgment

 DEVOTION

GENESIS

THE JUDGMENT

Gen 3:16-20

16 To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you."

17 To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat of it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life. 18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. 19 By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return."

20 Adam named his wife Eve, because she would become the mother of all the living.

NIV

The serpent was judged, and now the LORD God spoke his judgment on the woman first, and then on the man. What God said to the woman has been either forgotten or deliberately disobeyed. Because women usually experience pain during childbirth, it would make sense that the full judgment must come true, which is that the wife should have a desire for her husband and that he rules over his wife. There is no way around this, as the Hebrew word translated as rule carries the meaning of having dominion over, to govern, to reign, rule, or have power over. Perhaps there are two problems at work in our post-modern culture in our country.  First, there is the disobedience of many women in submitting to their husbands. The second is that the husband is not being the man he should be. God's first judgment of Adam was because he listened to his wife instead of being the head of their household, which would or should have prevented Eve from listening to the advice of another. There is much said about the relationship between a husband and a wife in the New Testament that bears out this truth. God spoke to both the man and the woman, but it does seem as though much of this truth has gone by the wayside, left behind, forgotten, or disregarded. The judgment against the man was that through painful toil, or work for our sustenance, all the days of our lives. How many men work all the days of their lives? It seems most men have taken up, disobediently storing up wealth for their sixty-fifth year, when they decide to stop working all the days of their lives, to do nothing, or whatever they decide to do as a retiree. It would also seem that many men have abdicated their responsibility as head of the household, putting their wives under pressure; they were not designed by God to experience. In fact, because so many women have desired to be equal with men and have entered the workforce with a vengeance to gain positions of leadership, more women now die of heart attacks than men. The point is that many men have failed to be the husbands God designed them to be. Many women have also failed to be the wives God designed them to be. Can we solve this dilemma? Only if we live according to the truth of God, according to his judgment.