DEVOTION
GENESIS
THE JUDGMENT
Gen 3:16-20
16 To the woman he said, "I
will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth
to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over
you."
17 To Adam he said, "Because
you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you,
'You must not eat of it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through
painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life. 18 It will produce
thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. 19 By
the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since
from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return."
20 Adam named his wife Eve,
because she would become the mother of all the living.
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The serpent was judged, and now
the LORD God spoke his judgment on the woman first, and then on the man. What
God said to the woman has been either forgotten or deliberately disobeyed. Because
women usually experience pain during childbirth, it would make sense that the full
judgment must come true, which is that the wife should have a desire for her husband
and that he rules over his wife. There is no way around this, as the Hebrew
word translated as rule carries the meaning of having dominion over, to govern,
to reign, rule, or have power over. Perhaps there are two problems at work in
our post-modern culture in our country. First,
there is the disobedience of many women in submitting to their husbands. The
second is that the husband is not being the man he should be. God's first judgment
of Adam was because he listened to his wife instead of being the head of their
household, which would or should have prevented Eve from listening to the advice
of another. There is much said about the relationship between a husband and a wife
in the New Testament that bears out this truth. God spoke to both the man and
the woman, but it does seem as though much of this truth has gone by the
wayside, left behind, forgotten, or disregarded. The judgment against the man
was that through painful toil, or work for our sustenance, all the days of our
lives. How many men work all the days of their lives? It seems most men have
taken up, disobediently storing up wealth for their sixty-fifth year, when they
decide to stop working all the days of their lives, to do nothing, or whatever
they decide to do as a retiree. It would also seem that many men have abdicated
their responsibility as head of the household, putting their wives under pressure;
they were not designed by God to experience. In fact, because so many women have
desired to be equal with men and have entered the workforce with a vengeance to
gain positions of leadership, more women now die of heart attacks than men. The
point is that many men have failed to be the husbands God designed them to be.
Many women have also failed to be the wives God designed them to be. Can we solve
this dilemma? Only if we live according to the truth of God, according to his
judgment.