DEVOTION
GENESIS
LISTEN
Gen 21:8-13
8 The child grew and was weaned,
and on the day Isaac was weaned, Abraham held a great feast. 9 But Sarah saw
that the son whom Hagar the Egyptian had borne to Abraham was mocking, 10 and
she said to Abraham, "Get rid of that slave woman and her son, for that
slave woman's son will never share in the inheritance with my son Isaac." 11
The matter distressed Abraham greatly because it concerned his son. 12 But God
said to him, "Do not be so distressed about the boy and your maidservant.
Listen to whatever Sarah tells you, because it is through Isaac that your
offspring will be reckoned. 13 I will make the son of the maidservant into a
nation also, because he is your offspring."
NIV
If Abraham was 86 when Ishmael
was born and 100 when Isaac was born, at this great feast Ishmael would have
been 14 years old, just a boy, but old enough to mock the feast. Abraham was
unaware, as he must have been so overjoyed in celebration about the son Sarah bore him, the one who would be blessed by God and through whom the world
would be blessed. But Sarah noticed and told Abraham to send Hagar and Ishmael
away. Of course, that would have distressed any father if he had to send a son away.
Yet, God confirmed it was the right thing to do, so Abraham followed God's
word. We will focus on several truths. First, sometimes we men need our wives'
awareness. We could get so involved in a moment of celebration, of whatever,
that we do not notice what is going on around us concerning some situation, but
our wives are there to help us see what is happening. God gave Adam a suitable
helpmate; the original word means an aid, one who aids. Without Sarah by Abraham's
side to help him see what was going on, history may have been different.
However, God's plan is always accomplished, as he used Sarah, Abraham's
suitable helpmate, to draw his attention to Ishmael mocking the feast for Isaac.
Solomon clarified the value of the counsel of a wife when he said, " Can
you find a wife of noble character? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband
has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not
harm, all the days of her life." This may be why an overseer must be the
husband of a certain wife. Single men do not qualify because they lack a wife
of the right character. The Lord blessed Abraham with Sarah by his side. He has
blessed us men with the exact right woman to walk beside us. That was the
beauty of God showing us that truth by taking a rib from the side of Adam to
form Eve. He meant for us to walk side by side through life. Abraham was
blessed because he listened to Sarah as God instructed, which meant he listened to God and, in turn, to Sarah. We could do no less than
listen.